Gar, Reading through your messages here - I knew you were popular, but you touched so many lives in so many ways, and I am incredibly grateful to have known you. You asked me about my family and cared about my reply, while making me feel like a part of yours. The huge amount of love you had for your family radiated from you, you made it so clear how joyfully proud you were of every single one of them. I love how you were one of the kids around us, I have such happy memories of having a boogie at Love Supreme, countless pints in Leeds/London/Brighton, epic extended family feasts around your table at home that went on until the early hours. I will miss you complaining about my banker wanker colleagues and telling me how I was probably contributing to the end of society, I'm glad I have Gemma to keep this up. You made everything considerably more fun and I have learnt a lot from you about what is important, so thank you. Especially that its a good idea to always go for a pint, it is important to get to know your colleagues, and how you must always show everyone you love how much they mean to you. Miss you Gar and we will never forget you. love, Jess